“When we’re incomplete, we’re always searching for somebody to complete us. When, after a few years or a few months of a relationship, we find that we’re still unfulfilled, we blame our partners and take up with somebody more promising. This can go on and on—series polygamy—until we admit that while a partner can add sweet dimensions to our lives, we, each of us, are responsible for our own fulfillment. Nobody else can provide it for us, and to believe otherwise is to delude ourselves dangero...
I rise from my worst disasters, I turn, I change.
“Care about what other people think and you will always be their prisoner.”
Bad things happen for no reason sometimes and things end but that shouldn’t mean you should come to an end too.
“When something bothered me, I didn’t talk with anyone about it. I thought it over all by myself, came to a conclusion, and took action alone. Not that I really felt lonely. I thought that’s just the way things are. Human beings, in the final analysis, have to survive on their own.”
There are certain things in life that you’ll be forgiven for, no matter how thoughtless or stupid or reckless, but if you do that same thing twice, you’re on your own.
If he’s not calling you, it’s because you are not on his mind. If he creates expectations for you, and then doesn’t follow through on little things, he will do same for big things. Be aware of this and realize that he’s okay with disappointing you. Don’t be with someone who doesn’t do what they say they’re going to do. If he’s choosing not to make a simple effort that would put you at ease and bring harmony to a recurring fight, then he doesn’t respect your feelings and needs. “Busy” is anoth...
Isn’t it weird how people change and grow apart and stop talking and then one day you see this person who you swore you were going to be friends with forever and you can barely think of a thing to say and then it finally hits you that somewhere along the way your friendship dimmed and you will probably never be close to that person again. I think that’s one of the saddest things I’ve come to terms with lately.
When people who have been together for a long time say that the romance is dead.. Nuh uh.. They've just exhausted the possibility.
“It’s easy to feel uncared for when people aren’t able to communicate and connect with you in the way you need. And it’s so hard not to internalize that silence as a reflection on your worth. But the truth is that the way other people operate is not about you. Most people are so caught up in their own responsibilities, struggles, and anxiety that the thought of asking someone else how they’re doing doesn’t even cross their mind. They aren’t inherently bad or uncaring — they’re just busy and s...
Merry Christmas! Meet the Angeles Family. ♡
It's been a month since I last updated my diary about my personal life. Well, I just wanna greet each and everyone a Merry & Holy Christmas. My Christmas was well spent. My grand mom who was still suffering from stroke can't visit us in Manila so instead we're the one who visited her in province, Isabela. And guess what? I successfully finished all the 'Simbang Gabi'. Mission accomplished this year I must say. The long wait wish list for this year is finally achieved! Christmas Eve wasn't tha...
"Socializing is as exhausting as giving blood. People assume we loners are misanthropes just sitting thinking, ‘Oh, people are such a bunch of assholes,’ but it’s really not like that. We just have a smaller tolerance for what it takes to be with others. It means having to perform. I get so tired of communicating."
It's killing me.
Do you ever get in one of those moods where you’re like feeling okay but you’re really sad at the same time and you just want to talk to someone and make them hug you but you feel annoying so you kind of just sit there being really sad?
I'm not perfect. I have an extremely hard times expressing what's on my mind. I could fill page after page after page of all the notebooks in the world and you still wouldn't even begin to understand what goes on in my head.
Me trying a quick bite of this Salmon is somehow a miracle. There's definitely something fishy going on.
I AM REAL
I am not defined by the number of people who have asked about my GPA or the number of times I have felt trapped by the answer. They may be concerned with those statistics but I am not, and that ** is what matters. I am thoughtful, I am creative, I am caring, I am intuitive, I am mature, I am loving, I am intelligent, I am honest, I am real, I am me. There is a whole world to me beneath the numbers on my surface and that is beautiful. I am a human being - I define myself. I am a human bein...