MY BIRTHDAY TO SAGRITTUS SELF. HAPPY BIRTHDAY BE STRONG GOOD LUCK SMILE MORE DONT DEPRESS ANYMORE TAKE CARE OF OTHER PERSON FOLLOW YOUR DREAM BE FREE DO WHAT YOU WANT RESPECT MAKE OTHERS HAPPY :)GOOD LUCK,14YEARS OLD SELF :p

10 December 2013, 06:47 PM
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STUDYING SUPER HARD:p GOOD LUCK FOR ALL OF THEIR EXAM.:) MY SONG FAVOURITE:CRUSH AND SONG OF NATSUME YUJJINGCHU

10 December 2013, 01:06 AM
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善良可以是很小的琐事,比如赞美一个婴儿、感谢出租车师傅、提醒食客点的菜够了、排队时不紧贴别人身子,看到别人接吻会高兴,看到别人摔跤不发笑,躬身捡走地上别人随手扔的香蕉皮,车厢有人吸烟会上前劝阻……甚至只要一个微笑,因为那是一种可以看到的香味。善良不只是一种本性或愿望,它更应是一种修养,滋润自己的心灵,美化别人的生活。

03 December 2013, 12:05 AM
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 所以在生活中,你要养成什么样的心态呢?你要养成“三不”,“三多”(不批评、不抱怨、不指责;多鼓励、多表扬、多赞美)。你就会成为一个受社会大众欢迎的人。如果你想让你的伙伴更加优秀,很简单,永远地激励和赞美他们。

02 December 2013, 11:48 PM
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成熟人格六要素 1、自我意识(自我感觉)的扩大   人在婴儿时期,只知道爱自己,不久,自我意识扩大到母亲、朋友身上。成人以后,不管是谁,对于自己的衣服、金钱、所有物,都有"这是我的东西"的意识。为限于这么低的层面,而能扩及到职业、家庭--甚至扩大到所属的集团、地域社会、国家的话,便可视为成熟人格的表征之一。    2、和他人的密切联系   由于自我意识的扩大,对于周围的人,也能建立亲密感及同感。不会随便在背后说人怀话、挑人毛病、发牢骚、嫉妒、讽刺等等、尊重对方,宽容对方,不排斥对方,即使是男女之爱,除了被爱之外,也渴望爱人,而且能接受伴侣目前的状况,懂得包容对方的缺点。    3、情绪的安定(自我包容)  把自己的愤怒、恐惧、激情、性的冲动,都当作是一种"自我情绪"来处理。不盲目地压抑,也不钻牛角尖,所以没有罹患恐惧症及强迫神经症之虞。以尽量不和周围环境起冲突的方式来处理。而且,碰到挫折、欲求不满时也具有相当的耐力,不会乱发脾气、牢骚,也不会随便责怪他人、自怜自艾。时时反省自己、等待时机,寻求解决问题的方法,避免情绪不巡,或是能克服情绪不安。 4、具对现实的知觉、技能   能...

02 December 2013, 09:05 PM
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 抑郁者要想消除抑郁情绪,首先应该停止对自身及周围世界的埋怨,明确自己的认知错误,来源于以感觉作依据来思考问题。因为感觉不等于事实。   每当你焦虑抑郁时,切记以下5个关键步骤:   1、瞄准那些自然消极的想法,并把它们记下来,别让它们占据你的大脑。   2、读一遍本文提及的8种认知扭曲的模式,准确地找出你是怎样曲解事实的。一定要击中要害。   3、用更为客观的想法取代扭曲的认知,彻底驳斥那些让你自己瞧不起自己、自我寻找烦恼的谬论。一旦开始这些步骤,你就会感到精神振奋,自尊心增强,无价值感就会烟消云散。   4、制定切实可行的日常活动表,每天结束后填写回顾、分析日记,既能使你摆脱不愿活动和不想做事的处境,又能给你带来活动后的满足,逐步消除懒怠与内疚。   5、学会自我称赞,自我欣赏,坦然对待不良刺激,以保持情绪稳定,心境良好。   矫正不合逻辑的思维方式,改变认知错误现象,不是轻而易举的事,而一旦你对周围事物能做客观的分析后,对现实生活就有了正确的领悟。那么,你将置身于一个充满积极向上情感的世界中,心情会豁然开朗。尽管生活中还存在着这样和那样不尽人意之事,但不会由于一时的认知偏差...

02 December 2013, 09:01 PM
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I belive him,she is not a bad person. THANK YOU:)even the rumors are in there, but i will do myself,or starting to change one litte, for a good way, i have my problems in knowing things.thank you.i will help you when you have difficult.thank you,korea guys.jajaj como te llama is cool, funny.:)

02 December 2013, 08:55 PM
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当我们清晨从梦中醒来,睁开双眼的时候,我们立刻清醒了——今天又是崭新的一天,我要在这一天学习新的知识,面对新的问题,克服新的困难,我要再认识一个新的朋友,我要上台再发言一次来克服自己的紧张和恐惧,我要面对自己的一切弱点,我要挑战自己、超越自己。

28 November 2013, 11:34 PM
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I never think about it,i never think my mother agree i go to japan, so even how i wish i could go but i didnt say, but when my brother said it, i thought that was impossible but my mother agree and said to me you have to be stronger, independent so you will be able to go.So i discovered they always have been supporting my dream but they are worrying i coulnt do things alone because i am not mature yet and i am too childish..i hope i could be the strong one someday and be mature one.:)

28 November 2013, 01:12 AM
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The plants which i like most

15 November 2013, 02:54 AM
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Sometimes,people ony need who listens to them.

14 November 2013, 12:18 PM
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One and one story is a really nice game,so fun. once we were shadows... When she saw me,she ran to me,sometimes we have different views,Trust me,i wont hurt you anymore,my dear love.

14 November 2013, 04:56 AM
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I am tired of my life.I dont want to go to school.

13 November 2013, 03:06 AM
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I know that the things is happening in school is not Only their fault.Some of then are not respecting me and hate me.I know that a half is my fault Only that i cant be trié self again around then.I am afraid about it...:(i feel sorry too..

13 November 2013, 02:55 AM
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It's not about what you say, its about what you do. Be happy when it’s time to be happy and be patient until that time comes. Live as if you’ll die tomorrow. Dream as if you’ll live forever. The outer world you see is a reflection of your inner self. he sky isn't always blue; The sun doesn't always shine. It's okay to fall apart sometimes.

13 November 2013, 02:40 AM
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